Judy Blake Conceive Believe Achieve

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Judy Blake Conceive Believe Achieve

Conceive an idea, Believe it is yours to execute, and Achieve it successfully. GET it?  In doing so, you grow, expand, and thrive.  The most important key to remember is that the idea must come through you.  In other words, something that truly inspires you and that you really want.  There’s nothing more empowering than coming to the realization that you can have, do, and be anything you want!

The problem for most people is that they don’t believe it is possible for them. And yet that is nothing more than a limiting belief. Check that one at the door immediately because it simply is not true.

The old adage “seek and ye shall find” remains as true as ever.  If you look for proof that achieving big goals, big dreams, and living a life of excitement and success is possible… you will find it.

If the inner critic surfaces… and you look for proof that life is difficult, big goals are impossible to achieve, and success is reserved only for a select few… well, you are certain to find that as well.

Over the next couple days you are going to realize that not only is success possible for you, it is inevitable.  Listen to the introduction below and then start the course!

An exciting future awaits you.  Your journey begins now.  Name it, claim it, and let’s get started!

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Judy Blake is a Professional Life Coach, Educator, Mentor, and Speaker who is passionate about empowering others to consciously create fuller, more purposeful, more meaningful lives. Judy believes that it is never too late, you are never too old; there is no condition that cannot be overcome to be that person to design the life you want. JudyBlake.com

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“Neither lofty degree of intelligence, nor imagination, nor both together go to the making of genius. Love, love, love, is the soul of genius.”

– Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart

 

By definition genius means:  a disposition or aptitude of mind which is peculiar to each man, is endowed by nature and which qualifies him for certain kinds of action or special success in any pursuit; special taste, inclination, or disposition; as, a genius for history, for poetry, or painting.

What comes to mind for most are names in history, serving as models of genius in all fields covering a wide spectrum from music, art, science, math, and other successes.  Einstein, Mozart, Da Vinci, Michael Jordan, John Lennon.  Yet super intelligence is not necessary.  Although you may not have made your mark (as yet) in the annals of history you are no less a genius!

“Every child is born a genius.”

– Albert Einstein

 

Yes, we are all born with gifts or develop skills and talents; our genius will vary, but be assured: the truth of Who You Really Are is vast, and your genius i.e. greatness, already exists deep within you.  As a creative being, your great joy is to discover and be in your genius.

A few markers to take note of your genius:

  • Notice when you are experiencing a heightened state of energy when engaged in a project or activity… something you are really into!
  • Notice when you are “IN THE ZONE”.
  • Notice how quickly time passes.
  • Notice when you are moving through things with ease and effortlessness.
  • Notice an increased flow of aliveness within as you give your gift to the world.
  • Notice how contagious the energy circulates in a group.
  • Notice the vitality within and get present to it.
  • Notice that you are not just talking about it, but when you are actually being it.

To develop some self-awareness, do a weekly energy audit and review your activities both internally and externally.  Ask what am I doing at the times when my energy feels low?  And what am I doing when I feel charged and alive that allows me to feel this good?  The expression, “Time flies when you are having fun” is perfectly suited here.

For myself, I used to teach a fitness program and when I would lead the group inspired by the music, I literally could feel everything within me rise to a heightened state of absolute joy, and the smile on my face was bigger and brighter, just bursting in those moments.  I would feel radiant.  To this day I experience the same when I am free to dance to music I love!

Keep in mind you are always free to do whatever and whenever you want to live and be in your genius. The only one stopping you is you!!

To Your Genius!!

I would love to hear from you… what is your genius?

What are the markers that you experience?

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Success – imagine the super sweet smile on your face when you pair up thoughts of success and you!  Success means different things to different people depending on your values and priorities.  Nonetheless, it is probably safe to say that the majority of people will identify money as the primary marker of success, as it generally includes more than meeting your basic needs, but rather the means to enjoy life more freely.

Do you have what you want in your life?  Are you aware that You were born for greatness? And you have every right to have whatever it is that you want.  It is known as your birthright.  If you don’t have it – it is time you do!

So what is blocking you?  Want to know ‘what you are doing wrong’?  Let’s get to the point! It’s your mindset – the deeply ingrained patterns of automatic thoughts that are sourced in your subconscious and that unconsciously surface ‘thoughtlessly’ and effortlessly. These patterns of thought (limiting beliefs) fall primarily into the following categories:

“Not good enough” – Totally untrue but very common. Very often there is a lack of confidence, but this can be overcome with stepping into new experiences again and again.

Resistance to Change – Often associated with a fear of the unknown, resulting in a failure to explore new opportunities and missing opportunities for growth, freedom, and change for the better.

Dependencies or Co-Dependencies – This limiting belief relies on the thinking that happiness and success is outside of you, and results from behaviors or circumstances outside of our control, when personal control comes from within.

Negative Expectations – The subconscious is driving your vehicle… that would be the invisible part of you! The reasons for negative expectations may vary, but ultimately they result in creating self-fulfilling prophesies. If deep within the subconscious you believe “I can’t do that or achieve that”, then you are likely then to create just that – (sabotage) a negative outcome, or in an attempt to play it safe, you do not move past your perceived threshold. Perhaps you feel that life is a constant struggle and the next negative event is just around the corner. Releasing negative expectations is key to any form of success you may wish to achieve.

I don’t deserve – This limiting belief is one of inferiority. Because we unconsciously believe that we don’t deserve, we participate in life with low expectations for success, or often don’t even try.

Victim of Circumstances – Life doesn’t just happen TO you, but THROUGH you. Don’t get comfortable here. ‘Victims’ tend to accept unhappiness, or failure, as if it just happened ‘to’ them. It is their lack of awareness of how life really works that is missing. ‘Victims’ often feel helpless, and do not realize that they have the PERSONAL POWER to change their circumstances. As a result, they fail to take control in creating what they want, overcoming circumstances. Often many successful people fail a few times, using their failed experiences as feedback towards taking the next steps toward success.

Procrastination – Any success requires action and follow through; without it, it is simply entertainment, and you are likely to find yourself back on the treadmill of wishful thinking and excuse making, preparing to repeat the pattern.

Earning Approval for Love of Others – This is a time when it is healthy to concentrate your thoughts and focus on creating the success for you first and foremost – not for the approval of others. Doing things for the wrong reasons sacrifices your individual needs and goals for someone else’s approval that may never come to pass.

Excuses – These are the so called, “good reasons” rationalization for why certain things can’t or shouldn’t be done. You think you are doing it as an act of safety when often you are simply holding yourself back from availing an opportunity. If you want to see positive change – the excuses have to go! I call this fear!

Do any of these describe you?  If yes, then there’s some shifting that needs to be done if you want more out of life.  In whatever area you choose.  And before you catch yourself doubting or objecting… the rich people, the healthy people, and the happy people have already figured this out whether they did it deliberately or by default.

  • Think about it: What do you want that is missing in your life?
  • What is the struggle, problem, or dissatisfaction, i.e., the pain point in your life?
  • Does it have to do with relationships, health/weight, work, income, time and freedom?

If you desire something more than what you presently have, clearly it is possible as you see others living the example.

Now, before you automatically start making excuses to yourself – “don’t have the money, don’t have the time, it’s too overwhelming with everything going on in my life.”

STOP!

Catch your breath! It requires a different mindset, one in which you may have to grow into, beyond the point or place where you are. Ultimately – it leaves a gap that needs to be bridged.

One of the single most effective success-accelerators is life coaching, to bridge the gap to create the new life you wish.  It is statistically shown that those that work with a coach are 98% more effective in making the desired shifts in their lives.  A coach or mentor helps breathe life into your intentions, keeping you focused, on point while transforming them into concrete goals, and then providing you with the transformational tools and motivation you need to turn those goals into reality.

What Olympian contender, team, or little league team functions without a coach for leadership, education, and direction?  The same applies to you.  Not every life experience offers opportunities for success, therefore if you need support and optimal function – look to a transformational life coach!  YOU are worth investing in yourself – from seeing your worthiness to have what it is you want.  So many times we put our children ahead of ourselves and I am going to tell you that once you are happy, and your children witness the shift in you, the energetic dynamic in your household will improve exponentially.

As an Inner Architect… life by design Life Coach I offer a plan for maximum effectiveness in:

    • Breaking free from limiting beliefs and self-sabotage for accelerated results
    • Creating and amplifying your vision, while activating your best resources
    • Strategies for overcoming fear, doubt and worry
    • Using your current conditions as levers for achieving your goals
    • Understanding the missing and often misunderstood elements of effective goal achieving
    • Developing authentic confidence

If you are tired of repeating the same old patterns and think you are ready,

Call me for a FREE complimentary sessions. You can contact me at JudyBlake.com/contact.

Make it a Great Day… Everyday!

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Great question… make friends with it and get to know it. Your paradigms are powerful, and can make a huge difference in the quality of your life as it is expressed. By definition it’s a compilation of beliefs, patterns, and habits that shape our current results that drive us close to the familiar – again and again. Be it consciously and more specifically unconsciously, paradigms are the deeply buried thoughts you are not aware of. The reality is that we are only in charge of about 10% of our thinking mind and the other 90% is beneath the surface – much like an iceberg. Most are only truly aware of the tip and we fail to recognize the size of the massive ice block.

For example, all too often we see ourselves in the physical form, as a body, failing to put it together that our body is a manifestation of mind. There are lots of magazines and advertisements for diets, weight loss, and pharmaceuticals all geared to improve or heal the body. But what if we worked on the mind and our paradigms to create the change we wish to be, we wish to see?

That’s the ultimate of recognizing and Taking your Power back!

How, you may ask….

  1. Conscious creation. Reprogram your conscious mind – empower the 10% part of you to take greater control of your life and live a better quality of life.
  1. Start by determining what is dissatisfying to you. What is occurring between you and what is happening? Answer: The thought!
  1. Pay attention to your thoughts. Negative thoughts beget negative outcomes. A RED FLAG. So too is the reverse true for positive thoughts begetting positive outcomes.
  1. Create and replace negative thinking with positive constructs. You create your thoughts! Focus on solutions or opportunities.
  1. Accept your situation as what is or isn’t… without judgment. That allows you to remove the negativity around it. You must first accept it before you can change it. It allows you to move forward.

For example, instead of saying how much you hate or dislike something – let’s say your job, search consciously to find something positive you can focus on in your day’s work, or see the silver lining in it. Maybe your current job allows you to pay the bills while you develop another passionate interest.

  1. Think about it; the past and future do not exist. You have NOW. The most important time in your life is NOW.
  1. Catch your thoughts around your belief systems. Limiting beliefs are just that… thoughts that hold you back from creating what you want out of life. You must catch it to shift it.

Hear yourself when you speak in absolutes… “Making money is hard.” “I don’t have enough education or training to be successful…” NOT TRUE. Rewrite the belief. Making money can be easy; there are millions of people who are thriving with ease. There are many who are extremely successful without college educations, or others who decide what they want and invest in the training.

Thoughts are made out of energy – increasing and repeating your positive thoughts eventually squeezes out the negative and contributes to raising your frequency and vibration to attract that which you intend or desire.

Oprah once said, “Be responsible for the energy you bring into the room”. Best to always come from a place of love. Love is not just a feeling, but an energy. We live in a world where hurt people often hurt other people. When hurt, release what happened as quickly as possible, and not allow the negativity to have power. That’s called Forgiveness, of yourself and others.

Congratulations on the clearer, courageous, more conscious you!

What is the one paradigm that you are aware of that needs to shift? If you need support, feel free to schedule a complimentary session at JudyBlake.com.

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Supply and Demand

Most of us don’t stop and think or even realize that we are actually living and operating day-to-day under a system of Laws, both known and unknown.  In other words, that which we are aware of or not. In the known category there are the obvious systems where we are bound to follow the ‘Law’ – or there is a consequence, a ticket, a fine, or a lawsuit, etc.

The unknown, invisible system is the most important system in creating success. It might be considered that which is invisible or unseen. It has always been there, is always there, as in right this very moment but just not obvious. It’s the energy around us.

Think of a batter hitting the ball. When watching a baseball game we focus on the ball being hit. Yet how the ball plays out depends upon multiple things; the momentum and force behind the swing, the conditions in the air, even the mindset of the batter. It’s not really about the ball, but about that which affects the trajectory of the ball, the intangibles that we cannot actually see.

Today I am talking about ‘supply’, the supply that is not visible but is always there.

Huh? Generally, we are never satisfied with the status quo, we always want more. There is an explanation for that… it’s our innate nature to create. And after we get a result based on one of our desires or goals, there is always a natural, perpetual increase – for more growth. We see it all the time in sales, services, or personal growth.

As the level, quota, or goal is reached, a new level of desire ensues because we are creative beings at the core and forever advancing. Look how far we have come in the last 25 years alone! Think about a simple chair; a functional object to sit on, and over time the number of variations… lounge, bar, high, swivel, desk. You get the idea. Once we have a successful experience or can check off an accomplishment on our to-do list, the next thing we do is seek to recreate or improve upon it; i.e., an increase in sales quotas, enhancing projects, or begin new ones.

The fact is SUPPLY (seen or unseen) ALWAYS PRECEEDS DEMAND.

Sounds counterintuitive doesn’t it?  But think about it, when the demand is present the supply is always on its way. If you get only one thing from my article, get this: 

* Getting clear on you want translates into the supply becoming available for you to receive it.  The Action steps then follow.* 

So what’s the big deal between the haves, the have-nots, and the wanna-bes? 

Perception, specifically a perception of abundance. Ask yourself: how abundant am I and how often do I acknowledge that? We are not talking about money alone. Most just do not see all the abundance around them, the ‘more than enough’ for everyone (as there is an infinite supply); it’s generosity. Those that subscribe to the school “you’ve got to see it to believe it”, get ok with good enough, because that is what they ‘see’ and know.  

If you want success of any kind, focus on the unseen first. You will be part of the successful class that believes before they see! Learn what is unknown about you and your relationship to success through reading & researching, observing, reflecting, mentoring, and processing.  

Remember the supply is always there, so go out and get what you want (demand).  Put the Zest back into your life  

Make it a Great Day!

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Success and the Law of Receiving

If there was only one rule in life, for me it would have to be the Law of Receiving.

  1. Disregard the common misunderstanding that you must ‘have’ before you can give.  It’s the backward approach.  Another way of saying it is: “after I get, then I will give”… do you hear the condition-based, limited thinking in this?
  2. Remember:  Giving is the first law when creating whatever it is you want… giving always precedes reception, whether it is your thought, your word, your praise, your service, your abilities, your participation, your appreciation, your patience, etc.

Culturally, giving is most often associated with money.  However money actually represents the Law of Services.  When giving our best in useful service, concentrating on the joy of service instead of our returns, there is an optimal blend between the exchange between purpose of service and purpose of money.  Makes sense.

However, we still need to be selective between careless, impulsive giving and careful, scientific giving.  In other words, when you see someone making an effort to help himself, contribute, or step up, that is the time to assist rather than give to the one who takes little or no action, yet still expects a hand out.

  1. Giving and receiving are two sides of the same coin: Can’t have one without the other.

Both are on the same continuum.  You have heard that it is better to give that to receive, but what is often left unspoken is the second half of the statement which says, “as you freely give, you freely receive”.

  1. Whether at home or in the workplace, the principal is the same:  we get what we expect; we continually draw into life what we give and expect. Generally speaking, failures are the result that our expectations did not keep pace with our desires.  Often this is due to confusion, doubt, or fear.
  1. Give with a willing spirit, without obligations or attachments.  Giving your best allows receiving the best in proportion to the degree of giving.  It’s really simple: the more you give, the more that comes back to you.  This is what is meant that the true joy is in the giving.
  1. Give regardless of your present possessions or position.  Understand that you are abundant and you live in a world of unlimited supply.  Perhaps you just need to raise your awareness and alter your belief system to accept the higher truth, which is limited by your present conditions.

THE LAW WORKS!  Upon yielding to the Law of Receiving, and adopting its premise, you may move from a good life to an even greater, more meaningful life, expecting all results in the areas you wish to realize, use, and enjoy, without doubt or fear.

This is a perfect opportunity to share (give) and inspire others with an example where this has been true for you.

Make it a Great Day!

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Feeling stuck?  Toilet paper on the bottom of your shoe?  A traffic jam, perhaps? Stuck between a rock and a hard place?  Many variations of the same; bottom line… there’s literally a lack of progressive movement, a lack of flow much like trying to move through molasses or between choices.  We can spin our wheels all we want, but without a decision as to which action to take, we are not going anywhere.

What underlies stuckness is the inability to make a decision, and behind that?  The infamous four letter ‘F word’… Fear!  OK, now we are getting somewhere.

According to Nora Roberts: “If you don’t go after what you want, you will never have it; If you do not ask, the answer is always no. And if you don’t step forward you are always in the same place.”

  • So ask yourself… where are you stuck?
  • What decision are you NOT making that could make a significant difference in your life?
  • What’s holding you back?
  • What are you afraid of?
  • What part of you longs to be expressed or seen?
  • How do you want to feel?
  • Where might you be settling for less than what you deserve?
  • How are you being asked to grow?
  • What will that take for you to operate at your greatness?

Get real with yourself and name what it is you want!  We can’t have everything, but we certainly can have what we want!  And that’s the real truth.

Be brave, comment below, and let’s untangle & tango with your truth.  It is my aim to support all who cross this way by providing tools and strategies to name what you want and get it!  Life is yours to be fully expressed!

Make it a great day!

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Judy Blake is a Professional Life Coach, Educator, Mentor, and Speaker who is passionate about empowering others to consciously create fuller, more purposeful, more meaningful lives. Judy believes that it is never too late, you are never too old; there is no condition that cannot be overcome to be that person to design the life you want. JudyBlake.com

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Did you know that we have about 65,000 thoughts per day, 90% of which are the SAME thoughts as yesterday, overdeveloping certain neural pathways?

Think on these thoughts, and ask yourself, how closely are you paying attention to your thoughts?

Each thought is comparable to data in a computer. Enough repetition and the brain, our own hard drive, is programmed whether it is yours or someone else’s thought. From birth throughout life we have received family, ancestral, environmental, and societal programming. Ever catch yourself saying… “I can’t do that, or afford that” believing more in the circumstance vs. what is actually true for you?

Our thoughts can make or break our dreams. We live in a world of unlimited supply, which is available to everyone, regardless of status or circumstance, yet demonstrated only by those few who have consciously chosen an abundance perspective.

You are sovereign over your own thoughts. Think carefully about what you are thinking, about what is truly true for you, based not by what those around you may think and say, but by the whispers of your own inner knowing. Your thought patterns determine your destiny.  Limiting thoughts result in limiting life. Change your thoughts and empower yourself to change your reality.

CHOOSE new thoughts and new perspectives to create living from your dream for the Best Life Ever!

If you need support, “I’ve got your back!”

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Judy Blake is a Professional Life Coach, Educator, Mentor, and Speaker who is passionate about empowering others to consciously create fuller, more purposeful, more meaningful lives. Judy believes that it is never too late, you are never too old; there is no condition that cannot be overcome to be that person to design the life you want. JudyBlake.com

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“How does one become a butterfly?” she asked. “You must want to fly so much that you are willing to be a caterpillar.”

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Signs of spring abound, and one of the most enjoyable signs for me is the thrill of observing graceful, gently fluttering butterflies. Recently I was reminded of the butterfly kit I purchased for my children when they were younger, and our witnessing of their actual ‘becoming’ a butterfly. A fascinating process.

Each day we would check the net container as they moved through their stages of growth from the moment they began as eggs to developing into fuzzy, crawling caterpillars with multiple legs, then wrapping themselves tightly in their protective chrysalis, until ready to masterfully burst into their own beauty and fly!

We happily set them free in the fullness of their individual symmetries as they were intelligently and inherently designed to BE – very much the metaphor of ourselves. The transformation is a flawless and natural progression of events. Yet, nowhere in the process does a caterpillar look even remotely like a butterfly – the sheer beauty of it all is in its coming forth into its own glory.

We, too, are all inherently designed to become the outward expression of greatness that resides within each of us. It’s already there – no exception. Many are called with a subtle nudging, yet may need support moving through the caterpillar stage. The caterpillar may perceive the transition as the ‘end of the world,’ whereas the butterfly actually is the beauty of new life.

The lifecycle of the butterfly is quite brief. Take note: Life is to be lived fully and passionately – not from the conventions once learned, but from the joy and freedom of who we authentically are. Experiencing life and love free from the fears that hold us back are the greatest of freedoms, along with tapping into that longing to do and be what it takes to feel our aliveness.

So…what is it that you are doing that makes you come alive each day? Please share below. You have the potential and power to inspire another.

Make it a great day!

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Judy Blake is a Professional Life Coach, Educator, Mentor, and Speaker who is passionate about empowering others to consciously create fuller, more purposeful, more meaningful lives. Judy believes that it is never too late, you are never too old; there is no condition that cannot be overcome to be that person to design the life you want. JudyBlake.com

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